REALITY?: Where Are The Ladies?

The needle hums, the material flies, my fingers move swift as the wind. The past is long past yet whispers of silks and satins, ballgowns encrusted with jewels. Grandmothers honored for thimble and thread in cathedral cities of violin dancing. A pinprick springs forth a ruby drop of blood, a knowing smile, the work is baptized, complete. But these are just drapes and not drapery, and the music is not an old waltz.

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REALITY?: Bangles and Beads

A little red Ducati zooms into the driveway, an unexpected but very welcome guest at our dinner table tonight. Change of menu; salmon must wait, for what better to serve our friend Gus, and what better diner for the freshly homemade ravioli.

Almost five years it’s been since we lost our dear Chris and it strikes me that for the first time in five years I do not have the comforting jangle of sterling bracelets on my right arm. Having taken them off for a surgical procedure, I have yet to put all rings and such back in place on my body; on my heart they’re engraved and unremovable.

Am I losing that need for the physical?

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REALITY? & WRITING: Warped Logic

As a writer of fiction, it’s hard sometimes to know when the line of credibility is crossed and how to manage to just stay on that edge. I shouldn’t worry; reality is beyond it.

Here’s the scenario: Corporate management holds a meeting with employees in which it discusses the current economic situation and what the company is doing to manage expenses. The “company” is not giving any cost of living increases this year, and the “company” will be enforcing an unpaid furlough leave of one week. That means the company is saving a lot of money and some of the employees get to keep their jobs. Okay, so everyone has to bite the bullet and if this saves jobs, it’s hurting everyone a little bit instead of hurting a few more (jobs are still being eliminated, regardless of cost saving measures, it’s inevitable) a whole lot.

But then, with a perfectly straight face, management goes on to explain–with Powerpoint slides and all kinds of smoke and mirrors–how the employees should embrace outsourcing to India because it saves the company a lot of money and thus, saves jobs.

Honest to God, this was said in all seriousness and maybe the moron himself didn’t see the irony. You just can’t make this stuff up.

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REALITY & WRITING: Plagiarism

I really shouldn’t have such high expectations of people, then I wouldn’t be so disappointed lately.

Dylan “poem” on sale was actually Hank Snow song

From Reuters, via J-Walk.

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REALITY?: More on Complements

It doesn’t look right here, but this new fabric is actually the best choice and leaves me open for floral print fabric for recovering the couches. It’s not at all what I expected to get, but with the lighter, summery look, I think it’s going to work well. The fabrics I bought previously will be better for the bedrooms or the den.

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REALITY?: Of Colors and Moods

Still trying to coordinate the living room drapes and a trip to Bristol’s JoAnn’s Fabrics found me with more fabric that I’m not sure I can use.

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On the left, a Waverly print I’ve had for several years that I’d planned to use as a valance for this window set. On the right, a new fabric I picked up rather cheaply that I still feel may be too dark for the area. The curtains beneath the custom shaped valance are a medium weight silk that I found at my mom’s (she saved everything!).

I’m thinking maybe another trip to JoAnn’s, this time with the wallpaper sample in hand. Then maybe a fun run around Home Depot for paint for the barn.

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CURRENT AFFAIRS: The Economy as Seen from All Angles

After biting my tongue through several nights of this ad (In This Together Connecticut) I find myself needing to make comment. The ad is state-employee minded–which of course I’m not at all against–but is tipped and twisted by one group to appeal to another group (non-government employees) by threatening their safety.

Workers have stepped up and made sacrifices. Now it’s time for the wealthy and big corporations to pay their fair share to help fix our state budget.”

This annoys me for several reasons. First of all, the government is not only the last one to make the sacrifices and take the hits as the private sector has taken for the last year and a half, but it’s that so typical whiney “well if we’re going to have to do this, everybody has to do this” that indicates to me that belief in spreading the wealth is also a strong belief in spreading the pain when they’re the ones hurting. I hate that every time there’s a possible layoff looming in the government sector, the public is made to feel guilty and must bear the threat of loss of security, education, playgrounds, et al, everything that is important to them rather than gearing the cuts at the ever present waste in  state spending. Oh and government, by the way, is one of the biggest hirers right now. Yet the corporations as employers are being asked to help keep state employees in their jobs–jobs that pay well over comparable positions in private industry. Well, if they had their druthers, I’m sure they’d just as soon keep their own employees in their jobs.

While government employees are important, to be honest with you, I’m just as dependent if not more so upon my auto mechanic, my doctor, my grocer, my banker and a host of others in the private sector as I am on the state.

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POETRY & WRITING: Finally!

Just received some really positive input from a respected source on a few pieces of poetry and that has encouraged me to maybe even submit along with the short stories as the reading season comes to a close.

I’ve never gotten any good local response or encouragement to my poetic attempts so I usually write poetry just as an exercise in imagery and concise form to assist in story writing. But secretly, deep down, we all think we’re poets and that alone, to a writer, tips you off to the very real possibility that you’re not and self-doubt is one of the biggest walls to overcome.

So I’m off in yet another direction.

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REALITY?: Response Time

Freakin’ Oriole has me hopping up with camera ready to miss the shot.

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EDUCATION: What Teachers Teach, and What They May Learn

UPDATED: Charles has posted his thoughts on students: “The ones that get away are the ones that haunt you.”

Sometimes you get a sneak peek inside the soul of a professional and that flash reveals the reason why they do what they do, and why they’re good at it.

Charles Deemer is a writer, playwright, teacher, and blogs about his experiences and his work at The Writing Life II. In a post today he mentions his scriptwriting course and a particular student he dealt with in evaluation of his work.

Made a mistake with an advanced student whose work I admire by giving a curt, frank assessment of a script in progress, rather than being more politically correct in my communication.

(. . .) Meanwhile he’s an unhappy camper. I thought my clear admiration of his talent permitted a response without window dressing but I was wrong. Now I’ve lost him, probably for good. I blew it.

I don’t know exactly what he means by ‘politically correct’ and as most of you know, I’m against pc, though all for old-school common sense and politeness and I think this is what Charles is driving at.

One of the main elements of teaching, aside from disseminating information, is to understand the x number of different ways in which people learn and, by guess-judging each student as an individual as to their method, gearing the material to each as much as possible. After all, the material doesn’t change (except applying Barthes’ principles) so the students are the variable and there are obvious (and researched) signals that indicate how an individual is responding to the knowledge being offered. I’ve had a history teacher who every day plopped the textbook in front of him and bid us do the same, then lectured the entire class with occasional glances down and the requisite turning of a page. His delivery was almost word for word with the book. I’ve also had teachers who are so enthralled with the topic (which is why they got into teaching) that they never noticed a student completely asleep the whole time.

Good teaching is a a combination of caring about the subject, wanting to share that information, and understanding that the best way to do that is by recognizing and appealing to the various receptors in order to achieve that result. It’s a guess based on experience and it’s not going to be conclusive or successful 100% of the time but it’s the closest thing to gaining the result I can think of using.

In the next few years the education system will see a glut of teachers because of the government funds being directed into that field and the lack of job opportunities in the private sector as the economy worsens before it gets better. It’s going to mean even more to have an instructor such as Charles who truly seems to care about reaching individuals, not just “my students” or “my class.”

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POETRY: Oriole

Orange breast, a sun
of feathered flames
black cape spread aloft
a flash, a slash across
a reflected sea
breaking waves of clouds
none as bold
none as bright
as me.

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REALITY?: Latest Health Update

There’s a piece of silk thread
coming out of my head;
other than that, I am fine.

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REALITY?: Politics and Philosophy

Had a very interesting and exciting conversation this morning with a very dear friend that, as a conservative liberal (he) and a liberal conservative (me) had us moving towards that dangerous edge in discussing current social and economic events. While political affiliation does not define us, our philosophies do, and define as well our chosen political stance. Disagreements about government policy have as their root the same seeds of difference that guide our decisions on broccoli versus asparagus. Most of us do not have a niche we fall into without having some overlapping and that, plus an open mind, keeps us sane. I find myself arguing with both liberals and conservatives, Democrats and Republicans, and believe me, that’s a stressful place to be sometimes.

So what keeps us from avoiding that edge with friends? He and I found out. Real friends are close enough to be honest and say, “well I think your idea makes about as much sense as a rock with wings, but I like you anyway.” This is what he said to me and we both broke up in laughter.

I think that as I get older I am more adamant about my principles and philosophies and am more willing to support and argue them. Along with this, as we learned today, is that as we cringe in embarrassment for our lovable but ‘deluded’ friends in their ‘shaded and clearly unreasonable’ beliefs, we have to realize that they, in their caring for us, hide their cringing dismay at our own philosophies and views in the very same way.

Ah, diversity of opinion serves both as invention and safeguard for a civilized, moving society.

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LITERATURE: Twitter Fiction

It all started in Japan with technology and a hustle-bustle crowd thirsty for a few words–and no more–of escape into the world of make-believe and vicarious living. Faster than a speeding sudden flash; concise, brief, quick, bold: Twitter Fiction, twillers, et al.

Will it catch on? I think that as an add-on to the literary means it’s a winner. But that’s about it.

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POETRY: Riverbed

You can hear the river sing from a hundred footsteps past
and feel the sweet wind’s breath that blows it hot and cold
into a mist that halos those that sip its waters
with smiling mouths that echo trills and ripples over stones

Crystal clear and pure the surface rushes on
hiding in transparency the grains of sand it picks from time
and mosaics into patterns that can please the easy eye
without the fingers of disturbance in its bed

She tiptoes close and closer, stoops and rubs sienna
from the banks into the creases of her beliefs and truths
yet knows she is too bent, too pale, too unyielding and
in the absence of the sunglow, her tongue tastes bitter grit

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